Most of us have undoubtedly used social networks by creating an account because we were bored or curious. But some of us may have also thought about looking for the beloved, which is a quite common situation in certain cases. In the next lines you will presented with some useful advice for a nice and fun online experience and how to prevent the date with your online lover from turning into a nightmare.
1. Start carefully, with small steps
Are you interested in a life partner? a purely physical relationship or just a "pen pal"? Even if it is a friend who you chat a lot with, you should carefully study the terrain before deciding to move further. Study their profiles really feel to see if there is anything that does not sound “good”. If everything sounds perfect, then maybe the person is actually lying. Pay attention to every detail before initiating the conversation.
2. Do not forget to protect your identity
It is very important to have a well designed profile, interesting and with much information. But you should not allow everyone to know your personal information, like address or telephone number. It is advisable to present any favorite music genres, and other details that can draw attention to the profile. Information such as: full name or location must never be shown to every user.
3. Carefully study your interlocutor
Have you already initiated the conversation? Excellent. After all, that’s why you are there. The way your interlocutor expresses his/her thoughts, the posting style and other similar factors can lead to clear indications about his/her personality. You can always give up if there is something you do not like about the other person.
Are you interested in a life partner? a purely physical relationship or just a "pen pal"? Even if it is a friend who you chat a lot with, you should carefully study the terrain before deciding to move further. Study their profiles really feel to see if there is anything that does not sound “good”. If everything sounds perfect, then maybe the person is actually lying. Pay attention to every detail before initiating the conversation.
2. Do not forget to protect your identity
It is very important to have a well designed profile, interesting and with much information. But you should not allow everyone to know your personal information, like address or telephone number. It is advisable to present any favorite music genres, and other details that can draw attention to the profile. Information such as: full name or location must never be shown to every user.
3. Carefully study your interlocutor
Have you already initiated the conversation? Excellent. After all, that’s why you are there. The way your interlocutor expresses his/her thoughts, the posting style and other similar factors can lead to clear indications about his/her personality. You can always give up if there is something you do not like about the other person.
4. It is time for a photo
If it seems that the discussion goes well... maybe it's time to see the person in photographs. A big warning though: anyone can "lie" in the virtual world. In order to avoid later surprises and make sure you are provided with a genuine photo, always ask for multiple pictures and compare them.
If it seems that the discussion goes well... maybe it's time to see the person in photographs. A big warning though: anyone can "lie" in the virtual world. In order to avoid later surprises and make sure you are provided with a genuine photo, always ask for multiple pictures and compare them.
5. Try more ways of communication
If you already spend much time in chat, it means that the relationship is likely to become serious. It is a good opportunity to get in touch in a more personal way. Again, always pay attention to the expression of the interlocutor. It's still a good opportunity to study some features of behavior and temperament. The way a person answers the phone can say a lot: level of education, sense of humor, degree of inhibition etc.
6. Ready-to-date?
A new and important advice: do not go to meeting "face to face" if you have any doubts about the person in question. Instinct is a great ally in every situation and it is best to listen to it. If you are not yet ready for this step, DO NOT do it. And if you do, make sure you meet in a safe place, a crowded one if possible, in order to avoid any type of problems that you might encounter
A new and important advice: do not go to meeting "face to face" if you have any doubts about the person in question. Instinct is a great ally in every situation and it is best to listen to it. If you are not yet ready for this step, DO NOT do it. And if you do, make sure you meet in a safe place, a crowded one if possible, in order to avoid any type of problems that you might encounter
