It’s too soon for you to start dating. You are not ready to start dating. This is what some people might think and deter you from dating if you are newly separated or divorced. If you are newly divorced and think that you are ready to start dating, these are some of the rules that you need to know.
Don’t be in a rush. You need to take care of your heart and prevent it from any other heart break. You may be ready to start dating and a new relationship but it’s not recommended to leave your house for any guy who asks you out. Take your time.
Don’t hide your status. Always be honest when a guy is taking you out and asks you about your relationship status. Just say the truth that you are separated or divorced so that you can know where the both of you stand. To know that he’s taking you out to know you better and doesn’t care about your past relationship.
Be careful while choosing. Most relationships end because the partners were unsuitable, use the trial and error method before you decide who you will settle with. Most newly separated or divorced women are so sensitive and are afraid of having another break up. Others rush and accept to settle fast so as not to be lonely, this can be dangerous as they can settle with an unsuitable partner who will break their hearts again.
Talk about the past. It’s hard to talk about past relationship with your new partner but one time it will be inevitable. You have to ready for that time, it’s also good to talk about what caused the break up so as you and your new partner can know what to do to avoid the same happening again.
Treat yourself with some makeup. Newly separated or divorced feel unattractive or unwanted which isn’t true. You don’t have to undergo an extreme make up or plastic surgery to attract men but at least where some make up, do your hair and dress smart. Embrace your femininity always and men will be attracted to you.
