Questions about your whereabouts, call list, wardrobe may be considered annoying and abusive as even though you are in a relationship, people prefer some bit of privacy. Sometimes making a relationship work may not be the hardest thing, a jealous partner is the hardest thing to deal with in a relationship. This can ruin a relationship and necessary action need to be taken so as to maintain the relation.
Some people think that being deceptive, avoiding communication or being argumentative is the way to deal with a jealous partner. This may only worsen the situation because this may elevate her jealousy, as she will feel more insecure. Try to talk to your partner when he (she) isn’t angry, ask for the cause of her jealousy, even if you are faithful but doubts you listen to them. Don’t be accusatory or bring acts of jealousy they have committed like going through your phone.
Reassure your partner that the reasons making them doubt you are unfounded. For instance if they went through a lot of pain, betrayal or abuse, tell them that people aren’t the same and you aren’t going to make them go through the same. This may sound obvious but your partner will feel appreciated by you telling them this.
They say that old habits die hard, you don’t expect your partner to drop the jealous issues overnight, if the habits start creeping up after talking to them, remind them that you are committed to making the relationship work but only if they are ready to let go of the jealous tendencies. If they don’t comply, it may be an indication to end the relationship because jealousy can be the cause of domestic violence and unhappy relationships.
