Some say that women like experience and prefer older men since women claim they are mature, drama free, caring, focused and most of all financially stable. For me it’s relative since not everyone is the same and you can find younger men with such qualities.
Older men dating younger women have various reasons too; it’s a signature of taste that comes with respect and envy from their male and female peers. Dating a younger woman cannot be easy and rewarding if you don’t know the following:
Tip #1. If you don’t know her world;
Due to the age differences and it may seem that you both come from different world or generation. This may be many differences and conflicts of interest. For instance if she is still in college or just finished, she may just be thinking of having fun as opposed to you thinking of settling with her. You may invest so much on her financially and emotionally and end up being disappointed if you were thinking of settling with her.
Due to the age differences and it may seem that you both come from different world or generation. This may be many differences and conflicts of interest. For instance if she is still in college or just finished, she may just be thinking of having fun as opposed to you thinking of settling with her. You may invest so much on her financially and emotionally and end up being disappointed if you were thinking of settling with her.
If you are the fun type, you have to break the different world barrier and reconnected with your younger times and have fun with her.
Tip #2. Stop minding about the age difference.
Let go of the worries, since you have accepted dating a younger woman, expect all sorts of comments from other people. If you let what they say get into your head because if you do so it will affect your relationship.
There also maybe behavior differences because both of you are acting your ages, don’t expect her to act like you want her to and don’t expect her to mature in a week or two while you are dating.
Tip #3. Be Financially Stable.
It’s not a lie, when you are dating a younger woman, there’s a lot of expectations and you are expected to pay a lot; school fees, all sorts of bills and even pay for all fun activities. As a man and the fact that you are older and earn a lot as compared to her, it may be perceived to be unfair to let her pay for things.
You may think that you are buying her love but you are not, you just loving her the way other younger men can’t afford. Besides, all younger women like to be spoilt.
Tip #4. Never act like her Daddy.
Never act like any authority figure; father, older brother or teacher by constantly reminding her that she doesn’t know or you know this or that because you are older and experienced. Be open to her views and try to argue or reason with her without mentioning it.
Tip #5. Be friends with her friends.
Friends of younger women matter a lot and play a big role in decision making in issues they face. Try to make good impressions to her friends and make sure they like since if they don’t they will definitely discourage her spoiling your relationship.
Don’t try too hard to impress them though , also try to understand them as it will also help you understand your girl.
