An English saying goes ‘behind every successful man there’s a woman’ and every man would do anything within his reach to get this super woman who will propel him to realize his dreams.
Ask any single man on the streets what kind of a girl he would like to settle with in life and you will realize that each one of them has a different perception of a perfect girl. The problem is that the end up settling for lookalikes and later in life when you meet them, only a handful will confess to having met the girl of their dreams. The rest regret or are having a hard time coping with their partners.
A man may be affected by factors such as inadequate finance, lack of self esteem, low education standards or even fear of women. These may deter you from getting the girl of your dreams but they are manageable.
Don’t trust your eyes with a 21st century lady because they all know how to style up themselves especially when you are their target man. I bet your eyes will deceive you to a camouflaged personality and you will only realize her true colors when it is too late. However, you won’t make this mistake by taking into consideration the following;
First, let’s identify some characteristics you need to beware of;
ü This girl who converses and expresses her amusement loudest in public is not as social as she may seem. She is seeking attention and be sure your private life will soon be an agenda of discussions when she meets with her girlfriends and at worst your friends.
ü If you happen to be part of a group conversation in which she is participating or listen to her conversing with her friends, take note of her reactions to other’s views. If she's the type that passes judgment on opinions with no positive light in her criticisms, then be ready to bring flowers home on a valentine’s night and find them in the pit the following morning.
ü Courtesy is a must for any man’s dream girl. A courteous girl won’t find it a difficult task to offer her seat to a frail elderly passenger or an ailing passenger. If she doesn’t, she is either egocentric or insensitive.
ü The good book tells us that a woman’s body is sacred. If she exposes too much of herself for other men to turn heads as she goes along, she is not the kind of girl that you want to bring home, introduce to your friends or take to your mama.
ü Monitor her wardrobe. A girl that majors on stylish designer brands will deflate your pocket trying to keep to her taste. Worse of is her source of income does not match her dressing.
One cannot posses all the above mentioned traits but at least, they provide a standard of measure.
Now that you have identified the girl of your dreams; how do you get her?
ü Let her know that you exist by seeking her attention. Calculate your approach when trying to get to know each other; first impression counts a lot. A foul move will instantly create a bad image and she will dread seeing you again.
ü Don’t stop after your introduction. Initiate frequent conversations by using any media available, from commenting on her social site’s posts to making phone calls or even extend your generosity to offer a helping hand with her chores.
ü Take courage and ask for a date, say dinner or a lunch date. This will give you the opportunity to know more of her personality and how she feels about you. You need to be careful on your first date with her if at all you intend to have any other dates. Any signs of insensitivity from your side will completely put her off.
ü If you notice you are having your way with her, make her miss you. Fake excuses of not seeing her much often as you did before but always keep in touch so that she doesn’t feel neglected. This will also help evaluate how she feels about you.
ü If she succeeds all these steps and you’re sure she feel the same way you do; you have the girl of your dreams and it’s time to put forward your intentions of dating her.
